Tuesday, July 24, 2012

WETIN YOU CARRY?


I have no doubt whatsoever that you are smiling right now because of this title. I knew when I chose it as a title that it is funny. And I also know that it is a familiar phrase that we can all relate to, especially if you are from my part of the world. In fact, that is why I chose it.

Without any prejudice against any person or group of persons, I have no doubt that you know the set of people that are associated with this phrase, I refer to them as “The men in black,” you can fill in the gap.

Whenever any member of this group accosts and asks you “Wetin you carry?” it is usually with a mind of finding an exhibit with you; something with which they can accuse and for which they can arrest you.

For the purpose of my intent for writing this piece, I see myself in the light of these men (i.e the men in black). However, there are things that differentiate me from them. While I am asking you “Wetin you carry?” I am not doing so in order to find an ‘exhibit’ with you - something with which to accuse and arrest you.

I am asking YOU this question, “WETIN YOU CARRY?” from a positive point of view. I am doing so because I know that you indeed carry SOMETHING, not something illegal, but legal. I don’t know what it is that you carry, how big or small, but for a surety, I am certain that you carry SOMETHING!

It is beyond me to discover for you what you carry, but I intend to help YOU discover “Wetin You Carry.”
Before you read any further, please take a moment to ask yourself, “WETIN I CARRY?”

You might be asking what the need for that is. The purpose is so that you can think, which is something not many people are used to doing. In fact many dread the thought of thinking; it seems like too much work to do. No wonder Henry Ford said, “Thinking is hard work and that’s why many avoid it.” But the good book tells us, “As a man thinks in his heart, so is he.”

Bishop David Oyedepo further stressed that, “If you don’t think you will stink.” And my humble position is that the day you stop thinking is the day you start sinking.

Further on the issue of asking questions, Anthony Robbins said, “The quality of your life is directly proportional to the quality of questions you ask yourself and others around you.” He also said, “When you ask the right question, you will find the right answer.”

Questions are good for your health and life.

“He who asks a question is a fool for five minutes, but he who does not ask a question is a fool forever.” – Chinese Proverb

I said ask yourself, “WETIN I CARRY?”

As we continue, let us consider a few examples from the word of God. ‘“… Your servant my husband is dead, and you know that your servant feared the LORD. And the creditor is coming to take my two sons to be his slaves. So Elisha said to her, “What shall I do for you? Tell me, what do you have in the house?” And she said, “Your maidservant has nothing in the house but a jar of oil…”’ – II Kings 4:1-7

You may also think like this woman that you have nothing except ‘a jar of oil.’ I want you to know that that jar of oil, whatever it is, is SOMETHING. Rev. Sam Adeyemi said, “The thing you need to turn your life around is around you.” YOU CARRY SOMETHING!

The story of the Israelites in the Bible, especially their deliverance from captivity in Egypt, is still a classic. One man who was at the centre of it all was Moses. I don’t have to go through the details. We all know that God used him to deliver the children of Israel from Egypt. One thing that Moses had and which God used to wrought most of the miracles that eventually led to their deliverance was a ‘Shepherd’s rod.’ ‘“So the LORD said to him, “What is that in your hands? And he said, “A rod.”’ – Exodus 4:2.

I don’t know what your own rod is, but I am convinced beyond every shadow of doubt that you have your own rod. WETIN YOU CARRY?

“A man’s gift makes room for him, and brings him before great men.” – Pro. 18:16
“Gift?” you may ask. Yes GIFT – your TALENT! That God-given ability to sing; to dance; to write; to run; to play football; to cook; to organize; to be creative or whatever it is you are gifted to do. That is what I am talking about.

Matt. 25: 14-30 (summarily) says, God has given you at least one talent. You are to discover it, develop it and the deploy it. i.e. give it commercial value and profit from it. After all Jesus said in Luke 12:33, “Sell what you have…” Deut. 8:18 also (summarily) says, God does not give wealth, He only gives the power to get wealth. That power is at your disposal.

Check out I Tim. 4:14a, “Do not neglect that gift that is in you…” II Tim. 1:6, “Therefore I remind you to stir up the gift of God which is in you…” Notice that the gift is in YOU!
“When we fail to use our potentialities we get farther and further away from God’s realities.” – Ubong Essien

God gave you ability so that you will not be a liability. He did not create you for a life of mediocrity or obscurity, but to be a celebrity and that’s why He gave you the ability to counter the effects of the reality of the calamity that subsist in your society.

Look around you; look to your hands; look within you. YOU CARRY SOMETHING!

There are people in this world with certain problems and you are the one with the solution to their problems, in fact not only do you have the capacity to solve their problems, you are the very solution they have been waiting for. If you don’t manifest, they will die with their problems. You are blessed to be a blessing. Note also that the money you earn is c proportional to the problems you solve.

“The world is not waiting for your explanation; they are waiting for your manifestation.” The Bible puts it like this, “For the earnest expectation of the whole creation eagerly waits for the revealing (manifestation) of the sons of God.” – Romans 8:19

Finally, I want to implore you not to go and enrich the grave any further than it is, don’t go to the grave with your gift. The grave does not need it, the world does. Enrich your nation and generation with you gift. Imagine if Bill Gates and his friend, Paul Allen never stepped out with their gifts – the love for software development. What would the world be like today without computers? Think about it.

The ability to write is one of the things I carry and that is why you are reading this piece.
WETIN YOU CARRY?

Thursday, July 19, 2012

JPEG copy of some pictures taken during METAMORPHOSIS 2012

Tuesday, May 1, 2012

METAMORPHOSIS 2012 ... rethinking the process

You are specially invited as a guest to attend this life changing seminar. It promises to be explosive. Invite your friends also.

Sat. May 19
10a.m.
RCCG, 50 Charles Avenue, Suru B/Stop, Orile-Mile 2 Road.

Friday, April 27, 2012

WAKA-PASS Reloaded


Having been a player in the acting scene for over two decades, I know that for every story you always have major or main characters and minor characters. Apart from these, there are also such characters that are referred to as ‘extras.’ In local parlance, these are usually referred as “WAKA-PASS.”

These are characters whose roles are not necessarily important; they are part of the crowd. Their inclusion or non-inclusion in the play does not affect the story or its message.

Just as you watch RMD, Ramsey Noah and those other star actors and actresses, so also a story has been written by the Creator concerning your life in which you should be the protagonist (main character). It is however disheartening that many live oblivious of this fact, which will make me ask you, do you realize your role and how important it is to the story?

God who is the Chief Director expects you as the main character to give your best so that people can come and pay to watch you.

So unfortunate though, is the fact that most people do not understand their roles in the story of their own lives. They do not know how important they are to the Chief Director who is also the Producer and has put so much resources on the ground to get the best out of them, hence they inadvertently act as “WAKA-PASS” – ‘not important,’ ‘insignificant,’ ‘won’t amount to anything,’ ‘can’t change the story,’ and so on.

I tell you, that is a wrong perception of who you truly are. Sam Adeyemi titled one of his books – “You Are More Than This.” In other words all we see of you right now is not all there is to your life. Bishop T. D. Jakes says, “The only number you add to another and does not increase the value of that other number is the number zero.” You are not a zero but a hero. You may have written exams before and failed. It does not mean you are a failure, it only means you are yet to succeed. Your business may be experiencing doom instead of boom, but I want you to know that in spite of the gloom there is still room for improvement. Bishop David Oyedepo on his part said, “There is a treasure in your nature, which you can use to terminate all the pressures in your life.”

I will simply put it to you like this, God did not create you for a life of mediocrity or obscurity but to be a celebrity and that is why He gave the ability to counter the effects of the reality of the calamity that subsist in your society. God gave you ability so that you will not be a liability. You are an asset!

It has been proven that there are over six billion people on the face of the earth today but none is like you. There is no second you; none has the same finger or footprints as yours. You are special. “Fearfully and wonderfully made” says the Bible. If you want the glory make sure you fulfill your purpose by playing your role as the main character in the story of your own life. You are not a “WAKA-PASS.”

God bless you and see you at the top.

Tuesday, March 13, 2012

THE CLARION CALL


Without an iota of doubt, I am convinced that this title is not strange to anyone who at one time or the other has had the opportunity of serving his or her fatherland in any part of Nigeria. Particularly I am talking about serving under the National Youth Service Corps (N.Y.S.C.) scheme.

I am sure also that this title reminds you almost immediately of the N.Y.S.C. anthem:

Youths obey the clarion call
Let us lift our nation high
Under the Sun or in the Rain
With dedication and selflessness
Nigeria is ours, Nigeria we serve.

What beautiful lines those are!

With a high degree of certainty, I am convinced that Mr. Wole Adetiran (OFR), who composed this anthem, is a man who truly understands what it means to have the interest of the nation at heart and be ready to serve, come rain or shine.

As a Nigerian too, who has had the opportunity of serving under N.Y.S.C. the scheme, in the Ministry of Commerce and Industries, Makurdi, Benue State to be precise. I have thought over the words of this anthem and gone to check the dictionary for the meaning of the word “CLARION” only to discover that the phrase “CLARION CALL” means, “A strongly expressed demand for action.”

This is what gave birth to the writing of this piece – “THE CLARION CALL!”

To say that Nigeria is a country marred with myriad of problems will not be an understatement or exaggeration of any kind. The indices are so clear. Virtually every Nigerian from small to great is complaining because of the heat we are being bathed with by reason of these “innumerable company of problems.”

However, the point of emphasis here is not to begin to lay bare one after the other the various problems we are faced with on a daily basis, we all know them. These problems cut across all the facets of our national life. All!

The indefatigable former U.S. President, Bill Clinton, on the occasion of his visit to Nigeria, said, “Nobody has a right to complain about anything if he is not willing or ready to do something about it.”

I believe that the astute former President must have borrowed leaf from the idea that has become so enshrined in the mentality of every American today – “Ask not what America can do for you, but what you can do for America.”

It is from this perception that I also want to throw this challenge to you, yes YOU! reading this piece right now.

The time has come for all of us to rise and take up the challenge to improve the lot of our fatherland. But for this to happen, we all must be ready to take the bull by the horns – whether you are young or old; educated or not. It is not about where you live – in the fast paced city or the slow paced village.

The CLARION CALL is a wake up call; it is a call to action; it is a call to duty and responsibility by using whatever ability and capability at your disposal to bring about stability in the socio-economic growth and development of our nation – Nigeria.

This CALL is a challenge to all and sundry, and above all, it is a call we must all answer. No matter who you are or what you do, you have a stake in this country called Nigeria. That is why as long as breath remains in you, you must continue to fight positively against all the ills that have plagued our nation and brought us to the point of degradation.

Above all, I believe that in the long run this fight will bring promotion and foster integration amongst our people, and help to redeem our battered and shattered image amongst the committee of nations. Remember that Nigeria once enjoyed the enviable position of being called the “Giant of Africa.”

This can happen again; this will happen again; and this must happen again! But not until we all answer the “THE CLARION CALL!”

God bless you and God bless Nigeria!

Abiodun Mabadeje

abiodunmabadeje@yahoo.com

08023771690, 07041662789

Monday, March 5, 2012

WAKA-PASS


As an actor with many years of experience, I know that for every story you always have major or main characters and minor characters. Apart from these, there are also such characters that are referred to as ‘extras.’ Here in our local setting we usually refer to these ‘extras’ as “WAKA-PASS.”

These extras are characters whose roles are not usually important; they are part of the crowd. Their inclusion or non-inclusion in the play does not affect the story or its message.

My dear, I want to tell you that a story has been written by the Creator concerning your life, in this story you are supposed to be the R.M.D or Ramsey Noah or any other actor or actress you know. But the question is do you realize your role; how important it is to the story?

God who is the Chief Director expects you as the main character to give your best so that people can come and pay to watch you.

So unfortunate though, is the fact that most people do not understand their roles in the story of their own lives. They do not know how important they are to the Chief Director who is also the Producer putting so much resources on the ground to get the best out of them.

Most people see themselves as “WAKA-PASS” – ‘not important,’ ‘insignificant,’ ‘won’t amount to anything,’ ‘can’t change the story,’ and so on.

I tell you today, that is a wrong perception of who you really are. Rev. Sam Adeyemi titled one of his books – “You Are More Than This.” In other words all we see of you right now is not all there is to your life. Bishop T. D. Jakes says, “The only number you add to another and does not increase the value of that other number is the number zero.” You are not a zero but a hero. You may have written exams before and you failed. It does not mean you are a failure, it only means you are yet to succeed. Your business may be experiencing doom instead of boom, but I want you to know that in spite of the gloom there is still room for improvement. Bishop David Oyedepo on his part said, “There is a treasure in your nature, which you can use to terminate all the pressures in your life.”

I will simply put it to you like this, God did not create you for a life of mediocrity or obscurity but to be a celebrity and that is why He gave the ability to counter the effects of the reality of the calamity that subsist in your society. God gave you ability so that you will not be a liability. You are an asset!

It has been proven that there are over six billion people on the face of the earth today but none is like you. There is no second you; none has the same finger or footprints as yours. You are special. “Fearfully and wonderfully made” says the Bible. If you want the glory make sure you fulfill your purpose by playing your role as the main character in your story. You are not a “WAKA-PASS.”

God bless you!

Saturday, March 3, 2012

The difference between life and death is nothing more than a second. People die sometimes not because of anything other than recklessness.

On Thursday the 1st of March, I was coming back from Ilorin, Kwara State, where I had gone to attend a seminar both as facilitator and Compere. On the way back to Lagos, God delivered me and the rest of the people in the bus from accident twice within the space of about 5 minutes. These accidents would have been caused by reckless drivers who overtook other vehicles ahead of them without necessary caution.

If you are reading this, please know that whenever you are on the road, there are other road users and it is important you take that into account, or else you might kill someone and even yourself.

This March, you will not die. Shallom